Tools to Start Using Today
Everything you need to transform love into action—free resources, guides, and real hope.
Make Your Book Club Meeting Unforgettable
THE HARDEST HELP isn't just a book—it's a conversation that could save lives in your community.
Discussion Guide
15 thought-provoking questions
Chapter-by-chapter breakdown
Activities to try between meetings
Tissues recommended
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"What to Say" Scripts
10 word-for-word scripts for common situations
What to say when they're drunk vs. sober
How to bring up treatment without starting a fight
Phrases that open doors instead of slamming them shut
STOP Method Guide
Step-by-step visual guide
Practice exercises
Wallet card version to carry with you
Real examples from real conversations
“Is This Alcoholism?” Checklist
20-point assessment based on clinical criteria
Red flags you might be missing
The difference between heavy drinking and addiction
When to trust your gut over their denials
First Chapter Free
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Emergency Scripts
Provides guidance for individuals dealing with a loved one struggling with addiction, particularly alcohol addiction.
Various scripts and strategies for different difficult situations.
Outlines Boundary Templates for various areas
Offers Daily Practices for the individual supporting the loved one
